Lyn Rowley
Sunday, April 21, 2024
Savoring the present day while remembering the past....
Sunday, April 14, 2024
Family Eclipse Adventure....
Over a year ago, my family started planning to all go to the total eclipse. Doug and Susie and Gwen and Tim both have campers and planned to camp. Initially, I said I would book a hotel room close by and still be able to be with all them for the eclipse. A campground was chosen in Southern Indiana that was in the center of the band of totality. Both families made sure to book their camp site exactly when the date opened. They had picked two campsites next to each other at the end of a cul-de-sac on the camp road. It looked like there was an open center area which might work for viewing the eclipse. I booked my hotel a year in advance. Less than a month from the date, the hotel notified me that the "rate" had changed on my reservation. I tried to get them to honor the rate, but it simply wasn't worth the fight (or the $900 they were charging). So I opted to camp, sleeping with Doug and Susie's family in their camper, since they have more room with only two kids. I was riding to the campsite with Gwen and Tim since Doug and Susie had extended their camping a couple of days before the eclipse. I was attending a conference that I really didn't want to miss and Gwen and Tim were not leaving until the Sunday before the eclipse.
The best laid plans often do not go off without a couple of hiccups and this was true of this trip. First of all, it was raining on Sunday as we were preparing to leave. Not just a little rain, but sheets of rain and it had been raining the week before. Gwen and Tim park their camper on their property, which sadly had become a wet, slippery, muddy mess as they tried to pull it out with their "big" twelve passenger van. Through a lot of effort on both Gwen and Tim's part, some large pieces of wood, big metal poles, and a tow strap, we were finally on our way about 3 hours late. That delay, along with traffic and more rain got us to the campground at 1:00am. But we got there! Doug and Susie had set up earlier on Sunday and were waiting for us. The good news was that the forecast was for clear skies and 70 degrees for the eclipse.
I have to include some camping pictures. It was so much fun. I know that if I had camped with a camper, I might have enjoyed it much more then tent camping.
I was certainly ready for bed early that night. Coming off of a 4 day conference when I didn't sleep very much made for a tired grandma! But it was an unforgettable experience. We packed up really early on Tuesday morning to head home.
There was so much on the internet about the eclipse and all the "theories" of possible events that might happen during or after the eclipse. All that happened was the eclipse. These signs in the sky are all a part of God's plan. He created the universe and established the paths of the moon and the stars. I love that we can anticipate and plan for these events as our knowledge has grown. We were all talking about how scary it must have been when people did not understand what was happening. When it got very dark, Jimmy thought it was time for bed! It must have felt very unsettling to see the sun darken. I am sure that there are still places around the world that might be startled by these natural events. What an amazing time we live in that we can know the timing and path of these wonders in the sky.
Jesus, thank you for advancing human knowledge and understanding. Holy Spirit, help us all to know that you - Father, Son and Spirit are the creator of the universe and that you still hold the world in your hands. Jesus, thank you for your plan for families that includes time for relaxation and fun. Amen
Saturday, April 13, 2024
Family Easter - there is nothing better!
We all gathered at Gwen and Tim's and always take our pictures BEFORE the egg hunt! This way the kids cooperate!
Then the kids got ready for the egg hunt. It is certainly a lot of fun at Gwen and Tim's since there are so many spots to hide eggs! They have a really big yard with really difficult hiding spots!
After all the eggs were found, and some candy eaten, we went inside for a wonderful dinner. It is pretty amazing to see us all cram around the table. We are certainly getting to the point that we will have to add another table soon! Tim prepared a ham and a family favorite - "Cheesy Potatoes". He also made homemade rolls, which were delicious.
These family times are so important to me. Seeing the family together like this brings me back to when my kids were little. Even though we live pretty close to each other, with everyone's busy schedules it is really difficult to make these gatherings work. I am so thankful that my kids understand how important this is to me and continue to make it work. I was thinking about a couple of Easter pictures I have from when Gwen and Doug were little....
Sunday, March 17, 2024
Believe it or not.... another birthday (Actually TWO)!
Ellie has been collecting these specific stuffed animals for a long time. Here is the Grandma explanation of what they are- there is some YouTube creator that has a show that Ellie watches and somehow these are part of that show???? Anyway, I think this one is named Fred the Plant. She was happy with it. Ellie is not very happy being 15. It means that she will be taking Drivers Ed this summer, and she is a bit anxious about it. I'm sure when the reality of being able to come and go on her own hits her, she will warm up to the idea of driving. Her other presents represented Ellie's unique personality and interests including crocheting and painting, and theater. There was a specific paint brush cleaner that she has had on her "wish lists" for several years that was always out of stock. Somehow, I managed to snag it and she was especially glad to have it. I also gifted her some special "character shoes" that are used for play production. It is much harder to figure out what to get kids, once they are teens!
I have especially enjoyed driving Ellie to dance this year since it gives me time alone with her every week. She has taken a real interest in stage theater, especially musicals. Currently she has a role in the play "Honk" which will be performed at the end of April. I heard all about the possible summer production of "Mean Girls" that Ellie and her friends are all planning to audition for. Ellie has worked hard this year on her home school material and plans to be done with school in April. Quite a good accomplishment for her freshman year of high school. One thing is for certain, she is going to miss Lia when she leaves for college next fall. I am so thankful that I get to spend time with her. She is an amazing young kid that I'm sure will surprise us all in the years ahead!
I didn't remember to snap a picture of Doug on his birthday, but I did get this photo of the gift bag I found. It was one of those times that you just can't pass up a perfect gift bag!
It looked like a fishing vest, covered with fishing lures! It was perfect to hold the book I ordered for him, which was some kind of instructional book about tying flies for fishing. At any rate, he was delighted with it! On the weekend following his birthday, I took Doug, Susie, Grace and Jimmy out for a celebration birthday breakfast. Again, I totally forgot to snap any pictures of the event! (This scrapping grandma is really slipping up!) Afterwards, Susie and Doug trimmed the tree in my front yard.This nonfruit bearing crabapple tree has really grown in the last few years. Some of the branches were so low and hanging so far over the driveway that it was a hazard! Not only did they trim so many branches, they also cut them up and bagged them. To top it all off, they even took them home to dispose of them! (I have to pay for my yard waste and theirs is free). It is a wonderful thing to have someone like Susie who knows how to do this! The tree looks beautiful now, and assuming that we don't have any late winter snow, should soon be in full bloom!I watched Grace and Jimmy inside while Susie and Doug handled the tree trimming. We had a week of rain, so it was much too wet for us to be outside. Afterwards, we had a quick visit. Jimmy begs to come to my house. He really hasn't had much time here, so there are lots of things to explore. As usual, Grace went immediately to my scrap room and found paper, tape, fancy scissors, and markers to make an art project.
So, here we are in the middle of March. This year has really gone by quickly. Easter is so early this year, so I am anticipating a much colder than normal celebration for our family. I look forward to Palm Sunday, Maundy Thursday, Good Friday and Easter every year. But it is hard to feel very "spring like" when it is still March!
Four years ago our world came to a halt with all the Covid restrictions. During those days and days of isolation and quarantine, the uncertainties loomed over us. How long would this last? How could we keep from getting this terrible sickness? How could we keep Ken safe from this when he was already so sick? Would we run out of supplies? Yes, it was a scary time. I remember sitting in my scrapbook room, trying to imagine the future. It seemed an impossible task when surrounded by all the unknowns. What I have come to realize this year, is every day is actually exactly like those early days back in March of 2020. In reality, we don't know what tomorrow will bring. We can not say if any one of our family or friends will fall ill. We don't know with certainty what the future holds. But we can know exactly who holds our future. It is such a comfort to know that Jesus is my provider and my refuge and my strength! In my daily Bible reading yesterday that seemed to be the theme! I always find it interesting when the verses I read fit perfectly with what is happening in my day. As I considered those verses last night, I realized how appropriate they are for today. Everyone who went through those weeks and months in 2020, feels that stomach clenching fear, thinking about those memories. But the very good news then and now is that God's got this! So, I will end with these verses from Psalm 46:1-3,7....
God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the sea, though its waters roar and foam and the mountains quake with their surging. The Lord Almighty is with us; the God of Jacob is our fortress.
Jesus, thank you for birthdays and time to celebrate together. Holy Spirit, remind us during those times of worry and fretting that You are always with us. Give us courage and boldness to remain calm when tings are shaking around us. Thank you for providing helpers around us when we need them. Amen
Saturday, March 9, 2024
Grade School Music/Art Programs are the Best!
There were eight classes of kids - four first grade classes and four second grade classes. The gym was packed with parents, grandparents and various sisters and brothers. It was "Standing Room Only" as the late comers had to stand against the wall! There was some "technical difficulties" and all of those kids (I estimate around 200 kids) were standing on those risers, looking out at the sea of faces, getting more and more anxious and nervous for the program to start. After about ten minutes, they had the kids sit down on the risers. After another ten minutes they were finally able to begin the show. And then Grace walked to the microphone in the center of the stage and started the show. Not only did she start the show saying all of her lines perfectly, but she stayed at the microphone for the entire opening number. This brave little girl sang, danced, did all the hand motions. And she did them well!
I for one, didn't have any idea that she was going to be doing this! I think all of us were a bit surprised to see her solo presentation. The rest of the program was very cute and all of the kids did a wonderful job. I know exactly how much work goes into a big show like this, thanks to Gwen's years as a music teacher!
Susie's mom and dad Steve and Sherry were also there, so Grace had a big cheering section! Keeping a wild two and half year old entertained for an extra 20 minutes during the technical difficulties was the hardest part! Jimmy did enjoy the singing once it started!After the performance, the Art Fair was in the hallway. Grace was especially anxious to show us her art work that was on display. She knew exactly where they were hanging, which was a very good thing since it was wall to wall people in those hallways!
I can't help but reflect on how grown up and truly wonderful this precious little girl is! Before each of my grandchildren were born, I prayed for them and received a glimpse of what Jesus might have in store for them. Out of those prayers, I created a "name frame" for each of them. Grace's was in my mind as I drove home.
For the first time I saw just how these words might come to life in Grace's lifetime. She does love music and sings all the songs she learned in Vacation Bible School, as well as all the other songs she knows. This music presentation just flowed out of her. The smile on her face was certainly an expression of joy as she preformed. I can't wait to see how Jesus brings all these words into and through Grace in the years ahead. Jesus, thank you for children that remind us to smile and laugh. Holy Spirit, continue to grow Grace into a Jesus worshipper who will reach the world with her songs. Thank you for joy that overtakes sadness. Give all of us the willingness to do hard things. Help us to have courage and boldness like these little children. Thank you Jesus for family! AmenSunday, February 25, 2024
Another fun party day...
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After Lia and Ellie left the party, Gwen got called in to finish Lia's cookies. Ellie wanted to finish her own at home!The party concluded with everybody singing to Anna and then cupcakes all around! It was a sugar heavy party, but you could hear a pin drop as they concentrated on the decorating. It is pretty fun to find a new way to celebrate a kids party.